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The Hautemommie

Los Angeles based blogger and television host aiming to inspire people to pursue the life they envision.

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  • Things I'm Leaving In 2019

    Lifestyle

    Things I’m Leaving 2019

    January 8, 2020January 9, 2020

    In the new year we’re leaving behind all the things that held us back in 2019. Find out what Hautemommie is doing to jumpstart her 2020 and how you can do the same!

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  • Lifestyle

    Black Friday Sales You Shouldn’t Miss

    November 29, 2019

    Find the inside scoop on every Black Friday sale that’s Hautemommie approved!

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  • Lifestyle

    Why Representation Is Everything

    November 19, 2019November 19, 2019

    If you grow up seeing winners who never look like you, you begin to figure you aren’t a champion. Leslie Antonoff dives into representation in literature and why it matters.

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  • Career

    The One Thing Brands Miss When Working With Influencers

    October 30, 2019October 29, 2019

    Over the course of the past few years we’ve seen an uptick in the amount of people calling themselves influencers. If you aren’t familiar with the term, according to dictionary.com it is defined as, “a

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  • Lifestyle

    Church And I Broke Up, But God and I Didn’t

    October 16, 2019October 15, 2019

    For years I felt the way I encountered God was directly related to the doors I entered every Sunday morning. Not in the prayers I prayed, the scriptures I locked in my mind, or the

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  • Lifestyle

    Getting Over Your Scarcity Mentality

    September 30, 2019August 29, 2020

    The more I think about it, the more I recognize the residual trauma from my childhood is clouding my ability to be happy where I worked to be. The scarcity mentality is holding me back and I’m working to get past it. Hopefully through me, you can too.

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  • Motherhood

    Super Mamas Social

    May 17, 2019May 17, 2019

    Hautemommie attends the Super Mamas Social 2019, dive in to check out the beautiful event and be inspired!

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  • Lifestyle

    The Power Of Investing In Yourself

    April 17, 2019May 4, 2020

    Investing in yourself makes you more dedicated to the work. You feel empowered when you start to see things coming to fruition. By giving yourself the gift of pouring into you – the win feels greater.

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    Ask not what you can do for a Pisces but what a Pi Ask not what you can do for a Pisces but what a Pisces can do for you. 
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Spoiler alert: EVERYTHING. 😏♓️
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#TheHautemommie #PiscesSzn #birthdayweek
    I’ve been “bossy” since I was 5. Told so oft I’ve been “bossy” since I was 5. Told so often that I was aggressive or too much and over time it chipped away at me. Left me a bit tattered. Worn down in places where I was once strong, whole, and confident. It’s an odd feeling to know you make adults uncomfortable or question themselves when you’re merely a child. Grown people who make children feel small in their confidence are only building more broken people.
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Girls, especially Black girls, are told they are bossy so often from such a young age, that they begin to question their natural intuition. Afraid to speak up for fear that their forthright disposition will mark them as trouble. I felt like trouble. I felt like my naturally authoritative way wasn’t something to lean into. It wasn’t praised like the boys, who in their own bossiness were told, “he’s a natural born leader.”
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Why couldn’t I lead?
Why wasn’t my fearlessness and direction seen as a predilection toward head honcho instead of top bitch?
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With three daughters under my care I choose my words wisely. I encourage them to share their thoughts, to follow their guts, and to lead the way. It isn’t bossy to know what you want or direct people toward it; it’s confidence. My job is to hone that confidence and turn it into empathetic leadership. To be able to guide people toward their best selves, what an honor.
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To all the bossy girls - 𝗢𝗪𝗡 𝗜𝗧. Be the boss. Make decisions, ask questions, push for the answers. Don’t hesitate to shake the table when something doesn’t sound right or utter no when a yes certainly won’t do.
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Let’s raise a future generation of women who know exactly what they want, how they want it, and how to go get it. Because THAT’S some boss shit. 💅🏾💅🏾💅🏾
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#TheHautemommie #MogulInTheMaking #bosslady
    When I was a kid @redlobster felt like the best tr When I was a kid @redlobster felt like the best treat in the world. My family didn’t eat out much but when we did; this was my favorite place to go. And yes while I love those BAE biscuits as much as the next person, it was the shrimp scampi that had a hold on my heart. 
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simple in ingredients and technique, shrimp scampi is something I make when I’m craving a little decadence and richness. That buttah gives me joy, what can I say? 🤷🏽‍♀️ Serve with pasta or rice because either way it’s gonna be lit like Bic.
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I’m going to work on posting all recipes on TheHautemommie.com, just so y’all know — they are coming. 😆 
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#TheHautemommie #TheHautemommieEATS #Blackchef
    imagine getting to call me Mommie & wife. Wow, w imagine getting to call me Mommie & wife. 

Wow, what a flex. 🤧😏

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#TheHautemommie #TheHauteMinies #donutsunday
    my favorite thing is when I can stretch one protei my favorite thing is when I can stretch one protein into two or three meals because then it doesn’t feel like leftovers. These short ribs done barbacoa style have been a taco, taquitos (shown here), and today became a bowl with rice topped with a fried egg, pickled red onions, scallions, and avocado. 
*peep stories for a look 👀*
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People ask me often, “what can I make from week to week without getting bored?” 
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My suggestion? Make a big batch of something that can be transformed a myriad of ways. 
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💬 what’s your favorite protein, veggie, or starch to flip? 🥩🥔🥦 
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#TheHautemommie #TheHautemommieEATS #foodie
    Gas me up, I only take ‘92 tho. ⛽️ 〰️ # Gas me up, I only take ‘92 tho. ⛽️

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#TheHautemommie #BlackGirlLux #streetstyle
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