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Episode 188: Entrepreneurship, Owning One’s Worth & Raising Critical Thinkers with @HAUTEMOMMIE

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Leslie Antonoff: TV Host, Writer/Blogger and Entrepreneur

Conversations with the Inspiring Leslie Antonoff

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Leslie Antonoff | The Haute Mommie

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EPISODE NO. 19

Issa Rae Has a New Cooking Show and Music Coming Our Way

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3 Steps to Overcome Hurdles on the Path to Poppin’

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⚡️mama always said it doesn’t matter what they call you, it’s about what you answer to.
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#TheHautemommie #longbeachblogger #yeezymafia ⚡️

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⚡️I was listening to @malcolmgladwell’s “Revisionist History” when he mentioned his 12 Rules For Living.
I’ve since thought about my own.
what kind of life do I want to live?
how do I want it to look?
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at 25, I began to sift through the muck,
asking myself which things needed work, what I wanted to keep, and what to let go of.
almost ten years later I feel good about the piles.
the envy I was clutching for childhood experiences I longed for - I put down.
anger that had built a fortress around my heart, at times seeping into other chambers, was among the evicted.
in their places came a desire for peace and freedom,
the longing for self imposed happiness.
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here on the precipice of a new year, another decade, and my own milestone year I’ve decided on some rules.
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BE PRESENT is rule one.
I’m ambitious, I’m driven, I’m so goal oriented; my goals have goals.
but in that ambition, worry lurks in the shadows.
the fear that I won’t accomplish anything. that I’ve done nothing and that opportunity won’t find me.
but if I’m present, I’ll see the facts.
I’m growing.
the list of goals has ☑️’s on it.
everything will be all right.
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I’ll continue to share more rules with you in hopes that you can create some of your own.
because life can happen to you or you can make it happen.
what’s it going to be?
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#TheHautemommie #wcw #MorningTHautes ⚡️
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⚡️ ⚡️we celebrated a little later because we were working/traveling during our anniversary. 🥴😬
In 5 years of marriage I’ve learned this:
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✨ask more questions - we spend a lot of time deciding what other ppl mean and what they think; we’d do better by getting clarity.
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✨learn how to disagree - you’re people. You will not always agree no matter how much you love your lil boo’s stankin drawls. Understand their triggers but be willing to see where you’re at fault too, if you are.
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✨still working on this one - get an activity you do together. Something you enjoy that’s outside of your normal routine. So often divorce is rooted in growing apart, that’s harder to do if your growing together.
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✨ on that note - get a life. Of your own. Have friends, do things separately, develop your own hobby - so that you can learn to miss one another. And value your time together more.
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everyday is about choosing to keep making the choice to be with your partner again and again. What makes that choice easier is all of the above. Thanks @castironking for 5 years of pushing me forward, supporting me, being my critic and my biggest fan. In the next 5 I’ll promise to maybe wear a matching outfit and call you my bestie. 😏😎 thanks DC for a great reminder of why my forever plus one is still a great choice.
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#TheHautemommie #TheAntonoffsAreOn #marriage ⚡️
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⚡️smiling because life has shown me the frown isn’t worth the trouble.
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#TheHautemommie #TheHautemommieDC #travelpics ⚡️

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⚡️hometown favorite.
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#TheHautemommie #TheHautemommieJETSETS #wearsweetknowledge ⚡️

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⚡️if we could title this chapter of my life it would be:
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“Learn To Believe In The Things You Prayed For; Or Shut Up.”
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Have you ever fervently asked for something from God or the Universe but you didn’t believe it even as it left your lips?
But then you were mad when it didn’t come to pass?
I have.
Often.
I’ve journaled it, I’ve shed a tear, I may have even shared it with someone; only to look at it in its face and not believe it’s mine when it arrives.
My #2020Vision is this: to trust in my prayers and the desires of my heart.
How?
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1️⃣ write it down. Hab 2:2 - make it plain or as @erykahbadu said, “write it down with pencil and paper and watch sh*t get real.” ✍🏾
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2️⃣ walk like you already have it. Think of this as preparation. Practice. So when the sh*t shows up, you recognize it and know what to do with it.
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3️⃣ run tell that. Accountability is where the magic happens. When you hold your goals close to your chest no one can support you in them. Unleash the dragon Sisqo! A trusted partner who will also take your request to the King? Priceless.
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I need this next decade’s chapter to be called:
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“I see it, I prayed it, I liked it, God got it and now I do too!” 📖
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You with me? Drop your #2020 chapter title below 👇🏾👇🏾 It’s about to get good!
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#TheHautemommie #2020Vision #NewYearBestMe ⚡️
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