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Los Angeles based blogger and television host aiming to inspire people to pursue the life they envision.

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    Making Sure My Black Doesn’t Crack

    April 1, 2019April 24, 2019

    It’s been quite some time since I’ve delved into what I do to keep my moneymaker looking top notch. We’re talking skincare today friends. As a kid I often asked my mother if I could

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    This Natural Deodorant Is A Mega Must Have

    June 12, 2018June 12, 2018

    For years I’ve struggled with trying to find a deodorant that doesn’t cause me any grief. I’ve tried it all – a multitude of brands that promised to leave me dry and funk free but

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    3 Ways You’re Hurting Your Chances At Great Skin

    November 21, 2017December 19, 2018

    Skincare is something I take very seriously. Long before I perused Sephora aisles with fierce focus and reckless abandon on my bank account, I was dedicated to loving the skin I was in. In middle

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    The One Thing You Need To Make Natural Hair Work

    August 11, 2017January 7, 2019

    Some of the most frequent questions I get when I’m out and about are about my hair. About its shape, the color, or how I maintain the texture and curl pattern. I can dole out

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    5 Go-To Lipsticks For Everyday

    July 26, 2017July 24, 2017

    Say it with me, “all nudes are not created equal” and “everyday is not for red.” Years ago I used to be afraid to wear color on my lips. From the incessant comments doled at

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    The Summer Skincare Edit

    July 20, 2017July 19, 2017

    Humidity, stark temperatures, and balmy nights are the parts of summer that we love to hate. Largely because they can affect how our skin acts and open up a pandora's box of issues with makeup

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    5 Drugstore Products I Always Have On Hand

    May 5, 2017January 7, 2019

    I love beauty, obviously. Lipsticks are the cherry atop my makeup sundae and stack up rewards as Sephora like dollars in a savings account. My affinity for high quality beauty products like Kate Somerville, Dior,

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    Review: Ouidad Advanced Climate Control System

    May 1, 2017May 15, 2017

    As a natural hair wearer I do my best to lock down products that will keep my curls defined, frizz free, and soft to the touch. Recently Ouidad sent me their newest collection the Advanced

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    💫 💫 as the weekend approaches I’m remindin 💫 💫 as the weekend approaches I’m reminding myself that it’s okay to not DO. a continual practice for me this year is not to be fearful of doing nothing. I’ve found that my apprehension to relaxing is rooted in the fear that if I’m idle, I won’t succeed. that lie continues to perpetuate perfectionism and ultimately just puts my anxiety on high. ⠀ basically homies, we gotta chill. find a way to make strides in our lives without feeling like taking rest will put us two steps behind. society has pushed us into feeling like we have to always be on. these little squares making us think everyone is constantly moving and shaking. truth is, we aren’t always. and that’s 🆗. ⠀ this weekend put your feet up, kick it - hard. do a whole lot of nothing. I promise you Monday will show up again ready for you. instead of dreading its arrival, use these two days to fill back up. that way you can pour from a full cup when the week starts again. ⠀ ⠀ ➿ #TheHautemommie #MorningTHautes #FriYAY 💫
    💫 felt like @dollyparton, might delete later. 😝 Also, #stillaRONI ⠀ ➿ #TheHautemommie #DollyPartonChallenge 💫
    💫 walking in purpose means standing firm in who 💫 walking in purpose means standing firm in who you are, no matter what it looks like around you. ⠀ where are you putting YOUR focus? that’s what I’m asking all 2020. ⠀ What’s your focus for this year? Leave it below 👇🏾and tag a friend who you know will hold you accountable! Let’s get there together.👩🏽‍🤝‍👩🏾👩🏾‍🤝‍👩🏽 ⠀ ➿ #TheHautemommie #tbt #2020vision 💫
    💫 I learned how to read when I was four, and ev 💫 I learned how to read when I was four, and ever since I’ve been devouring books. nourishing my imagination and my mind, cultivating the seed of my desire to write. as the busyness of life increases the time we have for our pleasures seems to decline. ⠀ I missed reading. my craving the stories of people far and wide, or information that I didn’t know I needed until I stumbled upon passages to reset my thinking. ⠀ but then I discovered the secret! an app that brought the library straight to my fingertips, right into the palm of my hand! if you’re looking for a way to get back to reading, start a new habit, or keep that New Years resolution 👀 - today’s post is just for you. ⠀ want the secret behind what doubled my reading last year? Head to the link in my bio - and tell a friend #HautemommiePutMeOn 😉 ⠀ ➿ #TheHautemommie #readingisfun #onthblog 💫
    💫 when I picked up my eldest daughter from scho 💫 when I picked up my eldest daughter from school today, I noticed two girls touching her hair. instantly I was triggered. my own experiences and traumas of being an anomaly came flooding back to my mind. the incessant questions I endured, constant uncomfortable petting by people who were friends. never feeling okay with it, but you know not wanting seem - aggressive if I said so. ⠀ it pains me that I have to prepare them for moments like this. that I must equip my babies with the tools to handle the fawning, even when the intent isn’t malicious. it’s enraging that their Blackness will confound some, so much that they have to touch to believe the magic they’re a witness to. ⠀ but I promise that my girls will wear their Blackness with pride. they will teach the voyeurs that they are welcome to enjoy the view, but please don’t touch the models. as a Black mother these lessons are the kind that plague us. make us weary and at times angry. yet we keep pressing on. ⠀ to my mamas who know this plight first hand, stay vigilant. to those that don’t, teach your little ones. teach them to see color, teach them to love difference because it is what makes us unique and special. pour into them that their Black friends are just as human, just as important, and just as worthy of respect as they are. do this because the village that it takes to raise our children also includes the villages we aren’t a part of. ⠀ the thing about magic is it’s unbelievable, we understand. but there’s no smoke and mirrors here. no hocus pocus or Shazam. just living breathing things that exist with you. and the sooner that’s understood, the better off we’ll be. ⠀ ➿ #TheHautemommie #TheHauteMinies #motherhoodunplugged 💫
    💫 travel when you’re 20: “who cares about t 💫 travel when you’re 20: “who cares about the room we’re only gonna sleep there anyway!”🙄 ⠀ travel when you’re 30+: “there’s a bed for everyone right? King? Foam pillows? You know I’m gonna need a nap.” 😫😂 ⠀ drop a 😴😴if you know the highlight of vacays these days is sleep you get after day drinking! ⠀ ➿ #TheHautemommie #TheHautemommieJETSETS #traveltuesday 💫
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