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@Howard on my chest & @gucci on my feet. Represent

@Howard on my chest & @gucci on my feet. Represent and stay fly, it’s what Bison do. 😏🤷🏽‍♀️

ALT CAPTION: Someone didn’t wake up a Bison today. It wasn’t me! 😝😝
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#TheHautemommie #KamalaWasBuiltAtAnHBCU #HowardMade #howardalumni

One of the things I always said I wanted in my mar

One of the things I always said I wanted in my marriage was for it to not only be a blessing to me, but to others.
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Living in a time where folks are jaded by relationships and love, marriage seems like the greatest feat in the world. It can be daunting to think about spending your life with someone, sound monotonous and boring, and anxiety inducing. When I got married for the first month or so I felt the urge to run. Which was strange considering we had already lived together so, what had 𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙮 changed?
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It was 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐢𝐭𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭.
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The idea that I had made this life long decision. What if I was wrong? What if this wasn’t for me? Maybe I chose badly? The truth is - 𝙢𝙖𝙧𝙧𝙞𝙖𝙜𝙚 𝙙𝙤𝙚𝙨𝙣’𝙩 𝙗𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙖𝙣𝙮𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙤𝙪𝙩 𝙤𝙛 𝙨𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙤𝙣𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙙𝙞𝙙𝙣’𝙩 𝙖𝙡𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙙𝙮 𝙚𝙭𝙞𝙨𝙩. It uncovers. It shines a light on the dark corners because they’re in full view now. It’s easy to hide when you can retreat to your own safe space.
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Do we disagree? Yes. 💯
Do we misunderstand one another at times? Yup. ‼️
Do we get angry? Sure. 😡
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But it rarely lasts because there’s nothing hidden here. Marriage, for all its flaws, has plenty of perks. Someone who chose to grow along side you, is a major one. Growth is hard but having a person who wants to hold your hand through it, lift you up in it, or give you a shove when it gets tough? That’s the blessing.
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Sure I’m in happy in my marriage, but I’m also happy that folks can see it and it makes them happy too. That’s being blessed to be a blessing.
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💭Married or not, how has a couple you know unknowingly touched you with their love?
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#TheHautemommie #TheAntonoffsAreOn #marriedforlife

Twitter said, “search 𝚜𝚔𝚢 in your photo

Twitter said, “search 𝚜𝚔𝚢 in your photos and post your fav.”

#𝚃𝚑𝚎𝙷𝚊𝚞𝚝𝚎𝚖𝚘𝚖𝚖𝚒𝚎𝚄𝚜𝚎𝚍𝚃𝚘𝙹𝙴𝚃𝚂𝙴𝚃
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@fsoahu, I miss you.
traveling, I miss you.
tanned legs, I miss you.
champagne poolside, I miss you.
Hawaii, I miss you.
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💭 are you missing travel like me?
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#TheHautemommie #TheHautemommieJETSETS #Hawaii

This morning I was thinking about success and givi

This morning I was thinking about success and giving. And how the two are so intricately connected. Many people think so deeply about their own comeuppance with themselves at the forefront. But if we begin to shift our thinking toward others and how what we create can benefit 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙢, we will likely experience the success we crave much quicker.
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Growing up I always heard, “it’s more blessed to give than receive,” for a long time I wondered how? 🤔 Until I began to understand that having a heart to serve leads to people wanting to pour into 𝙮𝙤𝙪. Keeping how we can serve others at the forefront of things we create, will ultimately ensure that:
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💥our needs are met
🌈goals are reached
🔮and our dreams come true.
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𝙄𝙩’𝙨 𝙞𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙣𝙚𝙨𝙨 𝙩𝙤 𝙨𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙛𝙞𝙣𝙙 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙥𝙡𝙖𝙘𝙚 𝙬𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙘𝙖𝙣 𝙗𝙚 𝙛𝙪𝙡𝙛𝙞𝙡𝙡𝙚𝙙.
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In 𝙨𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙘𝙚 of you all today there’s a new post on the blog, all about giving your partner a style refresh! You can’t step into a new year being a new you if your boo isn’t coming correct too! Link in bio or head to stories to swipe up directly to the post.
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💭what can you do in your work that can serve others? Let’s discuss 😁
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#TheHautemommie #WednesdayWisdom #servicefirst

You know what they say, Howard alum or vegan - eit

You know what they say, Howard alum or vegan - either one walks in the room you’re gonna know it soon enough. I figure why waste time? 🤷🏽‍♀️ 🤣
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We in the White House in t-minus 8 days. Get ready. 💙❤️
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#TheHautemommie #HowardAlumni #BlackGrad

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