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The Hautemommie

Los Angeles based blogger and television host aiming to inspire people to pursue the life they envision.

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    Secrets To Staying Inspired

    November 12, 2020November 19, 2020

    A question, to those of us walking on this freelance journey, is often, “how do you stay inspired?”ย Let’s get this out there once and for all – we don’t. No one is inspired 100% of

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  • Hautemommie why she started Saying No To Unpaid Influencer Campaigns

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    Why I Started Saying No To Unpaid Influencer Campaigns

    July 20, 2020July 20, 2020

    In industry after industry, we’re watching companies and brands being taken to task for their lack of equitable and equal treatment of Black people. Since 2009 I have encountered and worked with many brands and it’s brought me here. Finally ready to say no to unpaid influencer campaigns. This industry needs a change and I’m ready to make it. Join me!

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    What It Means To Find Your Voice As A Writer

    July 9, 2020July 9, 2020

    I barely started considering myself a writer last week. Ok not really, but it has taken me a while. Coming to terms with the fact that aspiring writer no longer suited me was interesting. Largely

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    Creating A Life Manifesto

    June 12, 2020June 15, 2020

    My entire life has been about writing everything down. Whether that meant to do lists or my life plans, putting pen to paper when it came to my future was important. Creating vision boards and

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    Discovering My Purpose Required Me To Be Vulnerable

    May 13, 2020May 11, 2020

    When I was young I didn’t understand the power of vulnerability. For me being vulnerable meant giving people access to hurt me. The irony with that with train of thought is, I was already hurting

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    The Gentrification of Hustle

    May 11, 2020May 4, 2020

    Everyone has a side hustle these days, but when did hustling become so cool?

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    How Will The Pandemic Change Influencing?

    April 9, 2020April 9, 2020

    The pandemic is changing business as we know it, how will it change influencer marketing?

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    Overcoming The Fear Of Putting Out Content

    March 31, 2020March 31, 2020

    Let’s just address the elephant in the room – it’s hard to hit send, push publish, and tap submit. The agony of release can be so daunting that we would rather not put it out

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    @Howard on my chest & @gucci on my feet. Represent @Howard on my chest & @gucci on my feet. Represent and stay fly, itโ€™s what Bison do. ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿคท๐Ÿฝโ€โ™€๏ธ

ALT CAPTION: Someone didnโ€™t wake up a Bison today. It wasnโ€™t me! ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜
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#TheHautemommie #KamalaWasBuiltAtAnHBCU #HowardMade #howardalumni
    ๐Ÿ’ญ ๐˜ผ ๐™๐™๐™ง๐™š๐™–๐™™ ๐™ค๐™› ๐™๐™๐™ค๐™ช๐™œ๐™๐™ฉ๐™จ ๐™ค๐™ฃ ๐™ˆ๐™‡๐™† ๐˜ฟ๐™–๐™ฎ:
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Iโ€™ll begin this by saying Happy Birthday to a man whose greatness has stretched beyond the constraints of time. Whose short life was remarkable such a way that he will honored for years to come.
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But in the midst of the celebration let us not forget that the dream he so eloquently spoke of that day, has yet to be actualized. Instead, his legacy and name, are evoked into conversations about โ€œ๐™ฅ๐™š๐™–๐™˜๐™šโ€ and wielded about like a foreboding warning far too often. โ€œBe like MLK, remember him, celebrate him โ€” just not what we did to silence him.โ€
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Year after year we watch while America hurls his name atop of their pseudo praise pies like the final touch. I call it #๐—จ๐—ป๐—ถ๐˜๐˜†๐—ฃ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—น๐—ฒ๐˜†.
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โ€œWe are all the same on the inside, letโ€™s be like Dr. King!โ€ - Brand that employs 1 Black person out of 500 employees. Thatโ€™s #๐—จ๐—ป๐—ถ๐˜๐˜†๐—ฃ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—น๐—ฒ๐˜†.
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Government writes a tweet about how they honor his legacy and life. Failing to acknowledge that treason is occurring as we speak. #๐—จ๐—ป๐—ถ๐˜๐˜†๐—ฃ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—น๐—ฒ๐˜†
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Schools teaching children about his life and not saying how his own country ultimately took his life for the very thing they praise him for trying to do. #๐—จ๐—ป๐—ถ๐˜๐˜†๐—ฃ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—น๐—ฒ๐˜†
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How about this year instead of spouting out empty birthday wishes and quotes, we remember this was a young man, a father, a brother; who dedicated his not even four decades on earth to fighting for the equality of his people. He was beaten, jailed, stalked, had his life on the line more often than not and ultimately was taken from us before he could see the fullness of his lifeโ€™s work come to fruition.
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Donโ€™t be guilty of #UnityParsley. Itโ€™s played out and Dr. King deserves so much more. Happy Birthday to the real MVP. America, do better.
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#TheHautemommie #MLKDay #LetLESLIETellIt
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    One of the things I always said I wanted in my mar One of the things I always said I wanted in my marriage was for it to not only be a blessing to me, but to others.
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Living in a time where folks are jaded by relationships and love, marriage seems like the greatest feat in the world. It can be daunting to think about spending your life with someone, sound monotonous and boring, and anxiety inducing. When I got married for the first month or so I felt the urge to run. Which was strange considering we had already lived together so, what had ๐™ง๐™š๐™–๐™ก๐™ก๐™ฎ changed?
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It was ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐œ๐จ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ข๐ญ๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ.
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The idea that I had made this life long decision. What if I was wrong? What if this wasnโ€™t for me? Maybe I chose badly? The truth is - ๐™ข๐™–๐™ง๐™ง๐™ž๐™–๐™œ๐™š ๐™™๐™ค๐™š๐™จ๐™ฃโ€™๐™ฉ ๐™—๐™ง๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™ฎ๐™ฉ๐™๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ฉ ๐™ค๐™› ๐™จ๐™ค๐™ข๐™š๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™š ๐™ฉ๐™๐™–๐™ฉ ๐™™๐™ž๐™™๐™ฃโ€™๐™ฉ ๐™–๐™ก๐™ง๐™š๐™–๐™™๐™ฎ ๐™š๐™ญ๐™ž๐™จ๐™ฉ. It uncovers. It shines a light on the dark corners because theyโ€™re in full view now. Itโ€™s easy to hide when you can retreat to your own safe space.
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Do we disagree? Yes. ๐Ÿ’ฏ
Do we misunderstand one another at times? Yup. โ€ผ๏ธ
Do we get angry? Sure. ๐Ÿ˜ก
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But it rarely lasts because thereโ€™s nothing hidden here. Marriage, for all its flaws, has plenty of perks. Someone who chose to grow along side you, is a major one. Growth is hard but having a person who wants to hold your hand through it, lift you up in it, or give you a shove when it gets tough? Thatโ€™s the blessing.
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Sure Iโ€™m in happy in my marriage, but Iโ€™m also happy that folks can see it and it makes them happy too. Thatโ€™s being blessed to be a blessing.
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๐Ÿ’ญMarried or not, how has a couple you know unknowingly touched you with their love?
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#TheHautemommie #TheAntonoffsAreOn #marriedforlife
    Twitter said, โ€œsearch ๐šœ๐š”๐šข in your photo Twitter said, โ€œsearch ๐šœ๐š”๐šข in your photos and post your fav.โ€ 

#๐šƒ๐š‘๐šŽ๐™ท๐šŠ๐šž๐š๐šŽ๐š–๐š˜๐š–๐š–๐š’๐šŽ๐š„๐šœ๐šŽ๐š๐šƒ๐š˜๐™น๐™ด๐šƒ๐š‚๐™ด๐šƒ
๐ŸŒŠ๐ŸŒด๐Ÿ›ซ
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@fsoahu, I miss you.
traveling, I miss you.
tanned legs, I miss you.
champagne poolside, I miss you.
Hawaii, I miss you.
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๐Ÿ’ญ are you missing travel like me?
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#TheHautemommie #TheHautemommieJETSETS #Hawaii
    This morning I was thinking about success and givi This morning I was thinking about success and giving. And how the two are so intricately connected. Many people think so deeply about their own comeuppance with themselves at the forefront. But if we begin to shift our thinking toward others and how what we create can benefit ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š๐™ข, we will likely experience the success we crave much quicker.
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Growing up I always heard, โ€œitโ€™s more blessed to give than receive,โ€ for a long time I wondered how? ๐Ÿค” Until I began to understand that having a heart to serve leads to people wanting to pour into ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช. Keeping how we can serve others at the forefront of things we create, will ultimately ensure that:
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๐Ÿ’ฅour needs are met
๐ŸŒˆgoals are reached
๐Ÿ”ฎand our dreams come true.
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 ๐™„๐™ฉโ€™๐™จ ๐™ž๐™ฃ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š ๐™ฌ๐™ž๐™ก๐™ก๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ๐™ฃ๐™š๐™จ๐™จ ๐™ฉ๐™ค ๐™จ๐™š๐™ง๐™ซ๐™š ๐™ฉ๐™๐™–๐™ฉ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช ๐™›๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™™ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š ๐™ฅ๐™ก๐™–๐™˜๐™š ๐™ฌ๐™๐™š๐™ง๐™š ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช ๐™˜๐™–๐™ฃ ๐™—๐™š ๐™›๐™ช๐™ก๐™›๐™ž๐™ก๐™ก๐™š๐™™.
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In ๐™จ๐™š๐™ง๐™ซ๐™ž๐™˜๐™š of you all today thereโ€™s a new post on the blog, all about giving your partner a style refresh! You canโ€™t step into a new year being a new you if your boo isnโ€™t coming correct too! Link in bio or head to stories to swipe up directly to the post.
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๐Ÿ’ญwhat can you do in your work that can serve others? Letโ€™s discuss ๐Ÿ˜
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#TheHautemommie #WednesdayWisdom #servicefirst
    You know what they say, Howard alum or vegan - eit You know what they say, Howard alum or vegan - either one walks in the room youโ€™re gonna know it soon enough. I figure why waste time? ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿฝโ€โ™€๏ธ ๐Ÿคฃ
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We in the White House in t-minus 8 days. Get ready. ๐Ÿ’™โค๏ธ
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