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Los Angeles based blogger and television host aiming to inspire people to pursue the life they envision.

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    The Library App That Doubled My Reading

    January 22, 2020January 21, 2020

    As a kid I lived for the summer library reading program. Signing up to read as many books as I could over the break was the highlight of my vacations. Returning each week having read

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  • Why I Took The Leap To Start Therapy

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    Why I Took The Leap To Start Therapy

    January 15, 2020January 10, 2020

    Long before I started down my road of therapy I knew I was in need of healing. The reasons I pushed it off for as long as I did are many but the idea that

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  • 12 Chic Kitchen Must Have's From IKEA

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    12 Chic Must Have Kitchen Items From IKEA

    January 10, 2020January 8, 2020

    It used to be that IKEA was synonymous with cheap furniture that you owned during college and just after. These days any smart person has come to see that the Swedes know what they’re doing

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  • Things I'm Leaving In 2019

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    Things I’m Leaving 2019

    January 8, 2020January 9, 2020

    In the new year we’re leaving behind all the things that held us back in 2019. Find out what Hautemommie is doing to jumpstart her 2020 and how you can do the same!

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    Black Friday Sales You Shouldn’t Miss

    November 29, 2019

    Find the inside scoop on every Black Friday sale that’s Hautemommie approved!

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    Learn How To Tell Your Story To Secure A Brand Deal

    November 22, 2019November 20, 2019

    The art of storytelling is essential to selling. Whether that’s a product, a photo, or your blog you must tell a compelling story. One reason so many creators or aspiring creators suffer with this necessary

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    Why Representation Is Everything

    November 19, 2019November 19, 2019

    If you grow up seeing winners who never look like you, you begin to figure you aren’t a champion. Leslie Antonoff dives into representation in literature and why it matters.

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    The One Thing Brands Miss When Working With Influencers

    October 30, 2019October 29, 2019

    Over the course of the past few years we’ve seen an uptick in the amount of people calling themselves influencers. If you aren’t familiar with the term, according to dictionary.com it is defined as, “a

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    💫 💫 as the weekend approaches I’m remindin 💫 💫 as the weekend approaches I’m reminding myself that it’s okay to not DO. a continual practice for me this year is not to be fearful of doing nothing. I’ve found that my apprehension to relaxing is rooted in the fear that if I’m idle, I won’t succeed. that lie continues to perpetuate perfectionism and ultimately just puts my anxiety on high. ⠀ basically homies, we gotta chill. find a way to make strides in our lives without feeling like taking rest will put us two steps behind. society has pushed us into feeling like we have to always be on. these little squares making us think everyone is constantly moving and shaking. truth is, we aren’t always. and that’s 🆗. ⠀ this weekend put your feet up, kick it - hard. do a whole lot of nothing. I promise you Monday will show up again ready for you. instead of dreading its arrival, use these two days to fill back up. that way you can pour from a full cup when the week starts again. ⠀ ⠀ ➿ #TheHautemommie #MorningTHautes #FriYAY 💫
    💫 felt like @dollyparton, might delete later. 😝 Also, #stillaRONI ⠀ ➿ #TheHautemommie #DollyPartonChallenge 💫
    💫 walking in purpose means standing firm in who 💫 walking in purpose means standing firm in who you are, no matter what it looks like around you. ⠀ where are you putting YOUR focus? that’s what I’m asking all 2020. ⠀ What’s your focus for this year? Leave it below 👇🏾and tag a friend who you know will hold you accountable! Let’s get there together.👩🏽‍🤝‍👩🏾👩🏾‍🤝‍👩🏽 ⠀ ➿ #TheHautemommie #tbt #2020vision 💫
    💫 I learned how to read when I was four, and ev 💫 I learned how to read when I was four, and ever since I’ve been devouring books. nourishing my imagination and my mind, cultivating the seed of my desire to write. as the busyness of life increases the time we have for our pleasures seems to decline. ⠀ I missed reading. my craving the stories of people far and wide, or information that I didn’t know I needed until I stumbled upon passages to reset my thinking. ⠀ but then I discovered the secret! an app that brought the library straight to my fingertips, right into the palm of my hand! if you’re looking for a way to get back to reading, start a new habit, or keep that New Years resolution 👀 - today’s post is just for you. ⠀ want the secret behind what doubled my reading last year? Head to the link in my bio - and tell a friend #HautemommiePutMeOn 😉 ⠀ ➿ #TheHautemommie #readingisfun #onthblog 💫
    💫 when I picked up my eldest daughter from scho 💫 when I picked up my eldest daughter from school today, I noticed two girls touching her hair. instantly I was triggered. my own experiences and traumas of being an anomaly came flooding back to my mind. the incessant questions I endured, constant uncomfortable petting by people who were friends. never feeling okay with it, but you know not wanting seem - aggressive if I said so. ⠀ it pains me that I have to prepare them for moments like this. that I must equip my babies with the tools to handle the fawning, even when the intent isn’t malicious. it’s enraging that their Blackness will confound some, so much that they have to touch to believe the magic they’re a witness to. ⠀ but I promise that my girls will wear their Blackness with pride. they will teach the voyeurs that they are welcome to enjoy the view, but please don’t touch the models. as a Black mother these lessons are the kind that plague us. make us weary and at times angry. yet we keep pressing on. ⠀ to my mamas who know this plight first hand, stay vigilant. to those that don’t, teach your little ones. teach them to see color, teach them to love difference because it is what makes us unique and special. pour into them that their Black friends are just as human, just as important, and just as worthy of respect as they are. do this because the village that it takes to raise our children also includes the villages we aren’t a part of. ⠀ the thing about magic is it’s unbelievable, we understand. but there’s no smoke and mirrors here. no hocus pocus or Shazam. just living breathing things that exist with you. and the sooner that’s understood, the better off we’ll be. ⠀ ➿ #TheHautemommie #TheHauteMinies #motherhoodunplugged 💫
    💫 travel when you’re 20: “who cares about t 💫 travel when you’re 20: “who cares about the room we’re only gonna sleep there anyway!”🙄 ⠀ travel when you’re 30+: “there’s a bed for everyone right? King? Foam pillows? You know I’m gonna need a nap.” 😫😂 ⠀ drop a 😴😴if you know the highlight of vacays these days is sleep you get after day drinking! ⠀ ➿ #TheHautemommie #TheHautemommieJETSETS #traveltuesday 💫
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