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The Hautemommie

Los Angeles based blogger and television host aiming to inspire people to pursue the life they envision.

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    Dionne Taught Me.

    December 5, 2018December 5, 2018

    Dionne Davenport is a fashion goddess,ย still twenty some odd years later, the Clueless character is inspiring style. While the fallen star who played her isn’t who she used to be, it’s fine because the fashions

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    The Perfect Pair: Leopard & Plaid

    November 30, 2018November 28, 2018

    There are neutrals and then there are “neutrals.” When I say the latter you may wonder, are there? But the answer my dear fashion friend is yes, indeed. I am a self-proclaimed neutral lover. You

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    How To Wear Your Two-Piece Suit Separately

    November 19, 2018November 14, 2018

    Power suits. Hillary Clinton chic. Two-piece wonder. However you choose to moniker your coord suits is your prerogative, but what I want share is a way for you to get the most out of it.

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    Paris Feels In California

    November 12, 2018November 10, 2018

    Have you ever felt you’re longing for someplace you’ve been to before? Lately I’ve been feeling this pull toward Paris so much it’s almost strange. Like I can feel the air around the Siene, I

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    African Inspired Menswear

    November 9, 2018November 9, 2018

    I‘ll let you in on a little secret, I shop in the men’s section often. There is something about men’s clothes that obviously touch on the androgynous parts of my style and bring a hint

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    8 Co-ord Sweatsuits You Need For Your Off Duty Looks

    November 5, 2018November 1, 2018

    There was once a time when donning a sweatsuit was meant for dads or Paris Hilton. Bedazzled velour with suggestive wording plastered across butts from Los Angeles to Manhattan was the go to. I must

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    The Elevated Basics You Need In Your Closet

    October 26, 2018October 25, 2018

    There’s always a list right? The infamous line up of items you must have in your closet that will ensure you are the epitome of stylish at all times. Truth is, you could have that

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    Mastering The Art of Layering For Fall

    October 24, 2018October 24, 2018

    Angelenos long for Fall like deserts thirst for rain, come October. Though we know inevitably that every year the chill won’t set in until after Halloween. Unfortunately due to global warming, yes it’s real, that

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    @Howard on my chest & @gucci on my feet. Represent @Howard on my chest & @gucci on my feet. Represent and stay fly, itโ€™s what Bison do. ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿคท๐Ÿฝโ€โ™€๏ธ

ALT CAPTION: Someone didnโ€™t wake up a Bison today. It wasnโ€™t me! ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜
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#TheHautemommie #KamalaWasBuiltAtAnHBCU #HowardMade #howardalumni
    ๐Ÿ’ญ ๐˜ผ ๐™๐™๐™ง๐™š๐™–๐™™ ๐™ค๐™› ๐™๐™๐™ค๐™ช๐™œ๐™๐™ฉ๐™จ ๐™ค๐™ฃ ๐™ˆ๐™‡๐™† ๐˜ฟ๐™–๐™ฎ:
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Iโ€™ll begin this by saying Happy Birthday to a man whose greatness has stretched beyond the constraints of time. Whose short life was remarkable such a way that he will honored for years to come.
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But in the midst of the celebration let us not forget that the dream he so eloquently spoke of that day, has yet to be actualized. Instead, his legacy and name, are evoked into conversations about โ€œ๐™ฅ๐™š๐™–๐™˜๐™šโ€ and wielded about like a foreboding warning far too often. โ€œBe like MLK, remember him, celebrate him โ€” just not what we did to silence him.โ€
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Year after year we watch while America hurls his name atop of their pseudo praise pies like the final touch. I call it #๐—จ๐—ป๐—ถ๐˜๐˜†๐—ฃ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—น๐—ฒ๐˜†.
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โ€œWe are all the same on the inside, letโ€™s be like Dr. King!โ€ - Brand that employs 1 Black person out of 500 employees. Thatโ€™s #๐—จ๐—ป๐—ถ๐˜๐˜†๐—ฃ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—น๐—ฒ๐˜†.
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Government writes a tweet about how they honor his legacy and life. Failing to acknowledge that treason is occurring as we speak. #๐—จ๐—ป๐—ถ๐˜๐˜†๐—ฃ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—น๐—ฒ๐˜†
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Schools teaching children about his life and not saying how his own country ultimately took his life for the very thing they praise him for trying to do. #๐—จ๐—ป๐—ถ๐˜๐˜†๐—ฃ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—น๐—ฒ๐˜†
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How about this year instead of spouting out empty birthday wishes and quotes, we remember this was a young man, a father, a brother; who dedicated his not even four decades on earth to fighting for the equality of his people. He was beaten, jailed, stalked, had his life on the line more often than not and ultimately was taken from us before he could see the fullness of his lifeโ€™s work come to fruition.
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Donโ€™t be guilty of #UnityParsley. Itโ€™s played out and Dr. King deserves so much more. Happy Birthday to the real MVP. America, do better.
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#TheHautemommie #MLKDay #LetLESLIETellIt
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    One of the things I always said I wanted in my mar One of the things I always said I wanted in my marriage was for it to not only be a blessing to me, but to others.
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Living in a time where folks are jaded by relationships and love, marriage seems like the greatest feat in the world. It can be daunting to think about spending your life with someone, sound monotonous and boring, and anxiety inducing. When I got married for the first month or so I felt the urge to run. Which was strange considering we had already lived together so, what had ๐™ง๐™š๐™–๐™ก๐™ก๐™ฎ changed?
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It was ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐œ๐จ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ข๐ญ๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ.
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The idea that I had made this life long decision. What if I was wrong? What if this wasnโ€™t for me? Maybe I chose badly? The truth is - ๐™ข๐™–๐™ง๐™ง๐™ž๐™–๐™œ๐™š ๐™™๐™ค๐™š๐™จ๐™ฃโ€™๐™ฉ ๐™—๐™ง๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™ฎ๐™ฉ๐™๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ฉ ๐™ค๐™› ๐™จ๐™ค๐™ข๐™š๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™š ๐™ฉ๐™๐™–๐™ฉ ๐™™๐™ž๐™™๐™ฃโ€™๐™ฉ ๐™–๐™ก๐™ง๐™š๐™–๐™™๐™ฎ ๐™š๐™ญ๐™ž๐™จ๐™ฉ. It uncovers. It shines a light on the dark corners because theyโ€™re in full view now. Itโ€™s easy to hide when you can retreat to your own safe space.
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Do we disagree? Yes. ๐Ÿ’ฏ
Do we misunderstand one another at times? Yup. โ€ผ๏ธ
Do we get angry? Sure. ๐Ÿ˜ก
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But it rarely lasts because thereโ€™s nothing hidden here. Marriage, for all its flaws, has plenty of perks. Someone who chose to grow along side you, is a major one. Growth is hard but having a person who wants to hold your hand through it, lift you up in it, or give you a shove when it gets tough? Thatโ€™s the blessing.
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Sure Iโ€™m in happy in my marriage, but Iโ€™m also happy that folks can see it and it makes them happy too. Thatโ€™s being blessed to be a blessing.
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๐Ÿ’ญMarried or not, how has a couple you know unknowingly touched you with their love?
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#TheHautemommie #TheAntonoffsAreOn #marriedforlife
    Twitter said, โ€œsearch ๐šœ๐š”๐šข in your photo Twitter said, โ€œsearch ๐šœ๐š”๐šข in your photos and post your fav.โ€ 

#๐šƒ๐š‘๐šŽ๐™ท๐šŠ๐šž๐š๐šŽ๐š–๐š˜๐š–๐š–๐š’๐šŽ๐š„๐šœ๐šŽ๐š๐šƒ๐š˜๐™น๐™ด๐šƒ๐š‚๐™ด๐šƒ
๐ŸŒŠ๐ŸŒด๐Ÿ›ซ
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@fsoahu, I miss you.
traveling, I miss you.
tanned legs, I miss you.
champagne poolside, I miss you.
Hawaii, I miss you.
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๐Ÿ’ญ are you missing travel like me?
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#TheHautemommie #TheHautemommieJETSETS #Hawaii
    This morning I was thinking about success and givi This morning I was thinking about success and giving. And how the two are so intricately connected. Many people think so deeply about their own comeuppance with themselves at the forefront. But if we begin to shift our thinking toward others and how what we create can benefit ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š๐™ข, we will likely experience the success we crave much quicker.
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Growing up I always heard, โ€œitโ€™s more blessed to give than receive,โ€ for a long time I wondered how? ๐Ÿค” Until I began to understand that having a heart to serve leads to people wanting to pour into ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช. Keeping how we can serve others at the forefront of things we create, will ultimately ensure that:
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๐Ÿ’ฅour needs are met
๐ŸŒˆgoals are reached
๐Ÿ”ฎand our dreams come true.
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 ๐™„๐™ฉโ€™๐™จ ๐™ž๐™ฃ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š ๐™ฌ๐™ž๐™ก๐™ก๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ๐™ฃ๐™š๐™จ๐™จ ๐™ฉ๐™ค ๐™จ๐™š๐™ง๐™ซ๐™š ๐™ฉ๐™๐™–๐™ฉ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช ๐™›๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™™ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š ๐™ฅ๐™ก๐™–๐™˜๐™š ๐™ฌ๐™๐™š๐™ง๐™š ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช ๐™˜๐™–๐™ฃ ๐™—๐™š ๐™›๐™ช๐™ก๐™›๐™ž๐™ก๐™ก๐™š๐™™.
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In ๐™จ๐™š๐™ง๐™ซ๐™ž๐™˜๐™š of you all today thereโ€™s a new post on the blog, all about giving your partner a style refresh! You canโ€™t step into a new year being a new you if your boo isnโ€™t coming correct too! Link in bio or head to stories to swipe up directly to the post.
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๐Ÿ’ญwhat can you do in your work that can serve others? Letโ€™s discuss ๐Ÿ˜
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#TheHautemommie #WednesdayWisdom #servicefirst
    You know what they say, Howard alum or vegan - eit You know what they say, Howard alum or vegan - either one walks in the room youโ€™re gonna know it soon enough. I figure why waste time? ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿฝโ€โ™€๏ธ ๐Ÿคฃ
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We in the White House in t-minus 8 days. Get ready. ๐Ÿ’™โค๏ธ
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