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Los Angeles based blogger and television host aiming to inspire people to pursue the life they envision.

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    5 Go-To Lipsticks For Everyday

    July 26, 2017July 24, 2017

    Say it with me, “all nudes are not created equal” and “everyday is not for red.” Years ago I used to be afraid to wear color on my lips. From the incessant comments doled at

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  • Beauty

    The Summer Skincare Edit

    July 20, 2017July 19, 2017

    Humidity, stark temperatures, and balmy nights are the parts of summer that we love to hate. Largely because they can affect how our skin acts and open up a pandora's box of issues with makeup

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  • Beauty

    5 Drugstore Products I Always Have On Hand

    May 5, 2017January 7, 2019

    I love beauty, obviously. Lipsticks are the cherry atop my makeup sundae and stack up rewards as Sephora like dollars in a savings account. My affinity for high quality beauty products like Kate Somerville, Dior,

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  • Beauty

    Review: Ouidad Advanced Climate Control System

    May 1, 2017May 15, 2017

    As a natural hair wearer I do my best to lock down products that will keep my curls defined, frizz free, and soft to the touch. Recently Ouidad sent me their newest collection the Advanced

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  • Fashion

    A Festival Of Sorts

    April 26, 2017April 21, 2017

    I remember when to me Indio and the Coachella Valley was just a place I went to play basketball tourneys in high school. These days it’s land to one of the biggest music festivals around

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  • Beauty

    HAUTE FIND: February Favorites

    March 20, 2017March 20, 2017

    February has come and gone and with March midway through I thought this would be a perfect time to share some favorites with you. This month I got into some new beauty goods and a

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    Grandma Knits in the New Year

    January 27, 2017February 19, 2017

    Wearing long, oversized knit cardigans has been a thing I’ve wanted to do. One because they look comfortable AF and two because they give an air of effortlessness while still put together that I love.

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  • Lifestyle

    Gift Guide For Lovers + Makeup Fiends

    December 5, 2016March 7, 2017

    Tis the season to give HAUTE-ties and I am going to help make sure you are the best Santa you can be. Today’s gift guides are all about the lovers in your life. You know

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    💫 walking in purpose means standing firm in who 💫 walking in purpose means standing firm in who you are, no matter what it looks like around you. ⠀ where are you putting YOUR focus? that’s what I’m asking all 2020. ⠀ What’s your focus for this year? Leave it below 👇🏾and tag a friend who you know will hold you accountable! Let’s get there together.👩🏽‍🤝‍👩🏾👩🏾‍🤝‍👩🏽 ⠀ ➿ #TheHautemommie #tbt #2020vision 💫
    💫 I learned how to read when I was four, and ev 💫 I learned how to read when I was four, and ever since I’ve been devouring books. nourishing my imagination and my mind, cultivating the seed of my desire to write. as the busyness of life increases the time we have for our pleasures seems to decline. ⠀ I missed reading. my craving the stories of people far and wide, or information that I didn’t know I needed until I stumbled upon passages to reset my thinking. ⠀ but then I discovered the secret! an app that brought the library straight to my fingertips, right into the palm of my hand! if you’re looking for a way to get back to reading, start a new habit, or keep that New Years resolution 👀 - today’s post is just for you. ⠀ want the secret behind what doubled my reading last year? Head to the link in my bio - and tell a friend #HautemommiePutMeOn 😉 ⠀ ➿ #TheHautemommie #readingisfun #onthblog 💫
    💫 when I picked up my eldest daughter from scho 💫 when I picked up my eldest daughter from school today, I noticed two girls touching her hair. instantly I was triggered. my own experiences and traumas of being an anomaly came flooding back to my mind. the incessant questions I endured, constant uncomfortable petting by people who were friends. never feeling okay with it, but you know not wanting seem - aggressive if I said so. ⠀ it pains me that I have to prepare them for moments like this. that I must equip my babies with the tools to handle the fawning, even when the intent isn’t malicious. it’s enraging that their Blackness will confound some, so much that they have to touch to believe the magic they’re a witness to. ⠀ but I promise that my girls will wear their Blackness with pride. they will teach the voyeurs that they are welcome to enjoy the view, but please don’t touch the models. as a Black mother these lessons are the kind that plague us. make us weary and at times angry. yet we keep pressing on. ⠀ to my mamas who know this plight first hand, stay vigilant. to those that don’t, teach your little ones. teach them to see color, teach them to love difference because it is what makes us unique and special. pour into them that their Black friends are just as human, just as important, and just as worthy of respect as they are. do this because the village that it takes to raise our children also includes the villages we aren’t a part of. ⠀ the thing about magic is it’s unbelievable, we understand. but there’s no smoke and mirrors here. no hocus pocus or Shazam. just living breathing things that exist with you. and the sooner that’s understood, the better off we’ll be. ⠀ ➿ #TheHautemommie #TheHauteMinies #motherhoodunplugged 💫
    💫 travel when you’re 20: “who cares about t 💫 travel when you’re 20: “who cares about the room we’re only gonna sleep there anyway!”🙄 ⠀ travel when you’re 30+: “there’s a bed for everyone right? King? Foam pillows? You know I’m gonna need a nap.” 😫😂 ⠀ drop a 😴😴if you know the highlight of vacays these days is sleep you get after day drinking! ⠀ ➿ #TheHautemommie #TheHautemommieJETSETS #traveltuesday 💫
    💫 there is so much talk of manifesting this or 💫 there is so much talk of manifesting this or that, but where i think people miss the mark is where it counts the most. the heart. ⠀ if you’re asking God, the universe, the higher power you ascribe to for the desires of your heart, they cannot come to pass unless you believe they will. manifestation isn’t about just asking and hoping for the best. it’s about knowing beyond a shadow of a doubt, no matter what things look like today, how the chips may fall, that I will have what I have asked for. that space will be made for you, it is knowing in your heart even when your mind is talking you out of it, that your request is being heard. ⠀ some will say that the power of manifestation has never worked for them. that they’ve never been able to make things show up just by believing, but I say - sure you have. it’s probably just not what you actually wanted, but it has been what you believed you deserved. ⠀ and there’s the tea. the scalding hot brouhaha. what showed up, is what you believed would. maybe that was nothing at all. Or maybe it was the calamity you feared, but it came. ⠀ receiving is about what you believe. manifestation is simply the physical part of belief. there were times when I didn’t think my prayers, my requests, or my desires were ever heard. and that’s probably why things didn’t show up. but when I started to say, “it is so.” “that is mine.” definitively, without a pause, for just in case, well, here we are. ⠀ let today’s request be that your heart believes so that your mind will follow, it’s manifestation season. ⠀ ⠀ ➿ #TheHautemommie #MorningTHautes #MondayMotivation 💫
    💫 all my wins are coming into FOCUS in 2020. ⠀ ⠀ ➿ #TheHautemommie #sundayselfie #videooftheday 💫
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